And I swear I have nothing against this lady.
Can you imagine my fatigue and how bored I got by over-saturating myself with Frozen Throne? I wanted to just faithfully study my Astrology, but my mind can't engage deep thoughts with all these lethargy vibes hovering inside out of me. KTV session yesterday was great, but it was at the expense of today's vitality. (This draft was supposed to be posted on Fri and I actually slept lor)
BTW, I know whoever that reads my shIt would be wondering WTF is karmic relationship or karma?
Gonna do a little explaination here... for the sake of 2SG LEE L C (You are famous!).
I am going through this in accordance to CloUdiSm Thesis:
(I) The objective of karma is to balance out your spiritual 'bank book' through the act of 'paying' and 'repaying' - revolving in this supposedly infinite cycle. Our current 'account' is ACCUMULATED based on our previous incarnation/s; and it's not so much about good/evil deeds, rather, in more accurate sense, it's more about your causes you create, which ricochet the effect back to you, akin to the Law of Physics - when you exert a force, the same amount of force will act against you. So whatever that is store inside our subconscious (where I strongly believe that information about your karma lies in there) is replay into our personality, which shape our coming destiny and circumstances.
It function like a mirror, but it doesn't reciprocate with EXACT scenario and effect. Instead, chances are, it will return those sublime 'message' behind the act. E.g. Employing cruelty in love will return cruelty, but the scenario that this cruelty was brought forth will not be a complete replica.
(II) Everyone whom we have come into contact, we form a bond with them. This is clearly explain through the analogy of two axis... (X): weak/strong and (Y): benefic/malefic bonds. The X-axis represent the strength of the bond, while the Y-axis represent the type of bonds. Logically speaking, the best kind of bonds we could have would be Strong and Benefic. Usually, such friendship/Love have everlasting duration and brings harmonious benefits into our lives. These people leave important and essential footprints in our stay here on Earth - during that particular phrase of our life. Depending on how long this phrase means to each individual bonds, some have good relationship/friendship for life, while other bonds may only have a short stipulated period.
Contrary to popular belief, time doesn't weaken bonds (you have not have contact your best friend very much, due to individual lifestyle, but that doesn't make this friendship sour, which make you see him/her in different light). CloUdiSm term this as the dormant state, where bonds are inactive, waiting to evolve further or to remain in dormant state.
It is very difficult to gauge if this bond is of benefic or malefic nature because ultimately, only time could tell.
III) The EASIEST method known to karma to balance out this spiritual bank book is through a relationship context; where people fall in love to fulfil this phenomenon of 'pay' and 'repaying'. You got to realise that NOT every relationship will end up in marriage and happily ever after - more likely, the people that doesn't belong to that category usually brings with him/her a certain lesson that he/she ought to grow from them.
Some people failed to understand the essence of those lessons and repeat them. For them, the result hardly differ very much from their former conclusion. Some people bring along unresolved issues from their previous relationship, which is an excellent breeding ground for their individual karma to wreck havoc for their love life again.
A karmic relationship simply means this: Relationship, of negative bonds, that isn't meant to be... with heavy lessons to be absorb.
Karmic relationship often operates in sets of common scenario and this intrinsic system, very often, display itself in such a way where:
I) Mind conflicts interest with heart
II) Individual conflicts interest with society
III) Principles conflicts interest with circumstance
IV) Reality conflicts interest with Idealism.
And the interesting note about this karmic system is that whatever route you opt for, it seemed that you will still appear to 'lose/lose out'. The best of both world options is unavailable and a win-win solution may not be possible.
Have you ever been in a situation where you see this pitiful old lady coming up to you and tried to sell you some packets of tissue? Probably three packs for a dollar or something? When we have actively employed empathy by previewing her landed pathetic state, emotions stirred a hurricane within us and mystically compel us to purchase her items. IF we disallow that to happen, nothing happens.
This is a good analogy of how Karma made use of a relationship to fulfil its objective. When we fall in Love, our defenses are lowered (through trust), in order to receive Love into our soul. By removing access control, we become emotionally vulnerable as our security unit in charge of filtering the what's not has vanished. Everything goes in. Good or bad. And due to Fifth Law of Love (Law of Package Love), we are unable to dissect all that is loving in a person from all that is unloving. Everything in Love must comes in a package.
Emotions are uncontrollable and when Cupid strikes with his rain of arrows, similar to the old lady selling you those issues, we become compel to allow what Love wants of us.
It mattered because love made it mattered to us.
(III) There is only a thin line that narrowly separate the legendary Soul Mate from that of a karmic relationship. Very often, karmic relationship CAN and WILL disguise itself with those feelings... mimic what you think True Love means to you. True Love is an utopia and because we have never been there or even if we are there, we never knew that we came. Therefore, it is easy for a Karmic Relationship to pirate those emotions, to set up the necessary stage and awaits for the grand play to begin.
In several schools of thought, many people believe that Soul Mate is BASED on the Twin Flame theory, which CloUdiSm used to adopt. It suggested that a Soul Mate due to a phenomenon where our souls (Masculine and Feminine) spilt itself into reincarnation and then reunification occurs when we search for our 'missing' half and fall in love with them. Love is robustly strong in this case and this powerful sensation is derived from that fact that our exact other half fill us wholly... like a perfect piece of puzzle.
I will share this article on Soul Mate, which CloUdiSm currently adopt:
If you've seen me in lectures or on Montel, you might already know that this "soul mate" thing is a subject that really gets on my nerves. In fact, I'd like to track down and kick right in the shins the person who started the rumour that one of our main purposes in life is to find our soul mate.
It's not.
The odds against it are astronomical.
And even if they weren't, the soul mate we find in the course of this lifetime wouldn't necessarily be a lover or spouse at all. The closest thing I have to a soul mate on this earth is my granddaughter Angelia.
Many people look so disillusioned when I announce that the soul mate search is a myth, like I'm taking their favourite fairy tale away. I'm not, believe me. Giving up the idea that there is a soul mate for us somewhere and it's our job to find them can be downright liberating. Few things bring tears to my eyes more quickly than clients who stay in abusive relationships because they have confused the constant emotional intensity with their concept of what having a soul mate must be like. Even clients with perfectly nice marriages sadly tell me that their greatest failure was in never having found their soul mate. The term soul mate gets mistaken for everything from infatuation to lust to an excuse for stalking, obsession, and domestic violence.
Maybe it will help if we get straight what a true soul mate is.
We are created with spirits that have both male and female aspects. We live lifetimes as both genders, as a matter of fact. I have never met anyone who's always been male or always been female every time around.
We are also created with an "identical twin" spirit whose male and female aspects are essentially mirror aspects of our own. That twin spirit is our soul mate. Our soul mate is not the other half of us, any more than we are the other half of our soul mate. I don't consider myself half a person. Do you, really? I certainly don't think there's anything romantic about thinking we are all a bunch of halves walking around. If I'm not half a person, and you're not half a person, why on earth would any of us spend one minute, let alone a lifetime, looking for "another half" that doesn't exist and that none of us whole people would have any use for anyway?
On The Other Side we're probably closer to our soul mates than we are to any other spirit, but we're hardly joined at the hip. We and our soul mates happily pursue separate friendships,
separate interests, separate work and studies, and above all, our own separate identities. With our soul mates we enjoy the most intimate love there is -- free, unconditional, liberated and liberating, with a mutual knowledge only true identical twin spirits can share.
Like all spirits on The Other Side, each of the soul mates can choose to be born on earth for another lifetime. They might only come here once or twice, like my Spirit guide Francine. They might feel the need to come again and again -- I'm on my fifty-fourth time around, and my last, I'm delighted to announce. But compared to eternity, even fifty-four lifetimes amount to about a minute and a half.
Which brings up an obvious question: What are the chances that you and your soul mate are ever going to show up on earth at the same time? Why would you feel the need to, since you are always together on The Other Side anyway, and this experience we call "life" is really nothing more than just a quick trip away from Home?
Not to mention the odds against the two of you being on earth in the same general age range, enough geographical proximity for you to run into each other somewhere along the way, and the right gender for the two of you to become a couple, which seems to be the top priority of the whole soul mate myth?
So please, give yourselves (and me) a break and stop looking for a soul mate who in all probability is having a great time on The Other Side right now, waiting for you to come Home. Don't set yourself up for all that pressure and disappointment. Don't cling to a bad relationship in the misguided belief that it is, after all, your soul mate and you belong together, even if you're miserable. Don't devalue a perfectly good relationship because you're missing that "soul mate feeling". Don't believe for one second that there's only one person on this whole planet you're "destined" to be with -- what a depressing thought that is! And I definitely don't want you to reach the later years of your life thinking you failed because you never found someone who wasn't even here but whom you'll be having a wonderful, effortless reunion with if you'll must be patient for a few more "minutes" until you're Home again.
What you will find as you move through this lifetime are any number of kindred souls -- spirits you have known in one or more past lives. I'm sure you have experienced the instant feeling of familiarity, either good or bad, that happens on meeting a kindred soul. Sometimes that instant familiarity is the springboard for yet another earthly experience together, as friends, as lovers and spouses, or family members.
Cheers
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