Aunt Agony IV 211006 (Continued from AA III 211006)

Originally posted by FailureOfTheNation:

hmm...enlightening...i have never seen it from such an angle before.

firstly, perhaps like what u said, i am still not ready to face the music, because previously when she became like that she will recover then back to normal, somehow i just hope to leave a confrontation until the very very last resort..

its not that i never tried to open myself to her, i tried but that only make her become depressed.

for example there was once i told her about what i was feeling when she treated me like crap, but then that only made her become depressed, and then she will put all the blame on her and say she's not a good gf and tell me to let go if i cannot stand her...

how like that? how to open to her? haiz.

somehow i feel, she has this desire to leave, but even she herself is not sure about it, thats why she treats me like that. perhaps now is the time for a confrontation.


Delaying the inevitable perhaps? It's not that you are not ready, in fact you will never be ready as a matter of fact; you are just afraid of the consequences.

I always feel that people prefer to target themselves as the blame (that they are bad/lousy) to conclude the relationship, than to end the relationship amicably because it has to go.

People always mention that Love needs no reason to be together; similarly, it needs no reason for one to leave as well.

P.S: I believe you have your own plans now, therefore, I won’t put anymore words.

Cheers