Aunt Agony III 101006

Originally posted by contagious-nerd:
some uncertainty, doubts. :?

brief background
know her for a long time, since secondary, only got close recently.

positive signals

she goes out with me, like the two of us.(not always though)
(she's selective when going out with boys, she dont go out with all boys)

she dont really fancy watching movies, i love watching movies.
(but after we got "close", she started asking for movies)


on the negative side

she sometimes rejects me when i ask her out
why?

feel that she's avoiding me
(slow msn reply all of a sudden when i ask her out/ask to talk on phone)



at first it was rocky. We then got close and slowly started going out, having long chats on msn. Now the situation changed again, somehow avoiding me.(just feeling that it is) but sometimes she does talk to me in sucha way that we are more that just friends.

whats wrong?

p.s its just a brief description, i can elaborate even further if you need on some parts you dont understand/ need more explanation before evaluating.

cheers. :


Six years and nothing was done until now?

If you don't attempt to lose sight of the shore, you will never reach new destinations.

There is so much evaluation... so much analyzing... so much explanation... so much elaboration... so much considering... so much thinking... so much deciding... so much planning... so much this... so much that... and that cost you six fringing years of your unrequited love.

I say hell with it.

There is one common message among them: there is so much fear.

If she was your dream girl six years ago, why nothing was done? On/off friends for six years? How could it be possible unless you are too passive in your approach?

And being passive is a product of fear - people idle because they don't want to change status quo; courage is missing.

人爱者有理，爱人者有勇

How many more six years are you going to waste?

Seek for closure.... Seek for answer.

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Cheers