Aunt Agony 191006

Originally posted by finrise:
Dear All,

Please kindly take into consideration that the below scenario is for your personal brainstorming and providing constructive advice towards other viewers for which maybe in the same plight and not able to sound out for advice.

Let's say fate brings you to know this wonderful gal which you have dream all along for years. After knowing her more tru phone calls. You came to know that she is actually from a wealthy family and high education but comparing to yours you are just a average working class which may maybe earning 1.5k per month and low education.

1) With her family background will you choose to be with her till the end of life as you really thanks God bringing her to You after so many years of waiting?

2) Give her up as you will not want to make her suffer as she well brought?

3) Thanks God for the enlightenment and just be friends with her?

Please give Constructive advice only!!!

Thanks in advance.


I think it's not wise to presume that she is the girl you wanted all your life and have that fixedly mindset to be with her until you expire from this world. Furthermore, it seemed to me that your friendship is probably nothing more than mere phone calls.

If you wanna know how this will turn out to be, you probably have to start knowing her personality and start dating her before could decide your route. Even if she says she doesn't mind, usually such issues don't bother the protagonist as much; it's usually the parents.

Always remember:

Earn less - can strive to earn more
Lowly educated - can upgrade oneself.

If you condemn yourself so quickly, then it's more or less permanent until you decide to break away from your narrow point of view.

We are what we think we are.

Cheers