Aunt Agony 271005

Originally posted by StarPuppy:
Well...very often we have 2 people accidently bumping against each other, resluting a mess(maybe one of them sprain their legs etc) and they help one and another and they get to know each other better...guy ask gal for number..gal gives number...yada yada and they fall in love with each other after countless dates .etc
-This would be Fate

While created by man....
Would be the matchmaking services..where people are brought together by dating services created by man

My point is....Do you think that love by a couple is created by Fate or by Man? and give reasons on why you think so

P.S: Sorry if i dun sound too clear...i didn't had enough sleep last nite..

~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy


As again, this question bends towards spiritual aspect of Love: The moment when you start to question Love why and not direct this question towards a person - it becomes spiritual in nature.

We all begin life with vast inadequacy in Love because life is about learning Love in our own ways. If Love is a subject, all of us would have strength and weakness in different topic within the subject. The people whom we are bound to meet this lifetime presented lessons to 'tutor' us in Love aspects where we are weak in.

In face of Love, we all become emotionally naked. There is neither screen nor mask we often wear to the world. The lessons that Love brings would 'feel' hurtful because the shield we wield against strangers has vanished. We become vulnerable... like a child.

The naive often find themselves cheated.

The passive often find regrets.

The flirt often missed the good person.

And the list goes on.

The appearance of this particular person... our current cosmic lesson... is what people deemed as fate. But fate (being appearance of a particular person) has a double edge thingy to it: some relationships are karmic by nature. Karmic relationship are challenging relationship place to test our knowledge of Love and how we handle them. Chances are, karmic relationship will try to degenerate us. Don't ask me why some people always have karmic relationship - I can only tell you these certain group of people are likely to have abuse, misuse or have been cruel in Love in previous incarnation.

This is a constant.

Worsen by (this lifetime) personality, character traits and decision made.

These are variables.

And if enlightenment is gain (sometimes is merely time factor) - what that has previously served to degenerate us will build us instead. You know when you play those role playing games and when you encounter difficult monsters - these creatures somewhat have higher experience points. If we gain enough experience points, we level up... and become stronger than before.

Freewill is almighty in Love because the decision we made is actually freewill - it is within your span of control. You may not decide who you are going to meet this lifetime, but certainly, you have the choice if you want accept them into your learning cycle.

A man may have decided to try for the matchmaking services - but does he has control over the people whom he will meet? Not exactly. But, as again, he has a choice over the people whom he deemed as potentials to see if a relationship is possible between them.

A closed heart - even with all 'best fate', 'best people'... will fail if the freewill decision is to say no.

Which is more powerful?

You decide.

Cheers