Aunt Agony IV 170805

Originally posted by StarPuppy:
everyone in this world have their rightful "one" for them...even the most ugliest guy will find the right girl for him

but i dunno why i always have this feeling or rather principles...
If a girl likes me,i will reject her...Why? "yi shan bi yi shan gao"(there will always be someone better)

I know people will say everyone is not perfect....why choose me?there is someone better than me....the girl should not just settle for 2nd best...i dunno why i have this kind of thinking...although i wish i want the person to be with me

Cheers

~+StarPuppy+~


It's your psychological and emotional structure.

There are people (i.e. my best friend) who reject better looking people for a more inferior version, because of reasons like 'Not so good looking... so won't zao sai me (or similar kind)' And the best part, personality wise, a version close to what we call a 'bad guy (huai nan ren).

The fact is, they CHOOSE negativity over positivity. In astrology, sometimes, people are just looking for karma to slam right into their face.

This is a complete no linked logic regarding looks and qualities say faithful. What? Better looking people have less character? Or people with seemingly screwed up personality can't find other mates? Crap. If you look a little closer, it is their lower esteem and psychological mindset that are unable to accept things that AS GOOD AS THEY ARE. And in fact, they are very above average people in most aspects. Even though they may NOT be that good, but surely and certainly, they overrated their negativity.

They don't see and feel good about themselves, hovering around inferiority complex, so they feel that can only accept partners with obvious flaws.

Girl should not settle for 2nd best? How you know you are 2nd best?

You eliminated YOURSELF without any conclusion.

There is still a fringing` long way before you will level up. Alot of tuning needed.

Cheers