Aunt Agony II 050805

Originally posted by snowygal:
short version of my story

i suspected him seeing somoene else.. there were plently of classic signs displayed by him.
he kept quiet when i questioned him..
he wants to break up.
We do have our issues... for example he wants me to have personal growth... to do things on my own when he is not free.. . he needs his so called space.

anyway..the thing is we are seprated now.
went thru hell of time. it has been 2 weeks. oh nearly forgot to mention..we both are not very young... late 20s -30s. he is slightly younger by a few mths

we do still keep in touch.i know its something i shouldn't be doing.
he called on monday 1 august. we talked amicably. he said he hasn't been a good bf. and we both agreed we took things for granted. asked if i wanna join him for a movie we promised to watch b4. he wants to stay as friends and even commented that even though the status has change...he will still be around , encouraging me :roll: and that we will still go for movies, dinners. He wants to be different according to him.. He doesn't wan to be like other guys where by once the relationship has ended... the guys disappear as well. He dun wan to be like those guys. :?

i asked why did he called.. he said to see if i am okay, and that he wants to hear my voice. arrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggghhhhhhhhhh.

once again he called few nites ago. got a shock. he said he just wanna chat with me. after talking few mins.. i told him off..that i cannot really recover if he keeps on appearing like that. He asked if he should go away for awhile. i just kept quiet. Am i stupid or wat. Deep down i know he may be even f..king the girl..and yet i am still talking to him..allowing him to control my feelings!!!

wat does he wants?


He knows that he has some form of emotional hold onto you.

Friends after a relationship? This is a tricky part because its difficult to discern if it's for real or an excuse to ensure the emotional hold onto you.

You must realise that you have all the powers to save yourself.

Freewill to ignore/avoid him.

When you pick up his call/go outing/etc - you are consciously assimilating unhealthy hope into your soul. But your mind is enraged and you react fiercely upon his seemingly vile intention.

I remember an old law in CloUdiSm: One should only remain friends with one another AFTER one has actually moved on.

Think about it.

Cheers