Aunt Agony III 170805

Originally posted by Steph84:
Guy 1: u love him more, but he is lazy n aimless... dun feel secure with him at all.... however feel comfortable with him..

Guy 2: have got the bread and is hardworking and more mature..... u like him...

who'd u choose??


You see, it is a problem of choices and slight suitability issues.

Suitability as in deciding which is the best partner... with the best potential... and the least potential problematic kind... prior to an actually relationship.

But if you ONLY have one option, you would probably settle for that one. Even if you may hestitate on Guy 1, but definitely, if he did the 'right' things to woo you, you will probably end up with him.

This is the problem of choices, which goes to question yourself: you sure you definitely have to choose between the two?

Confusion between two guys often signify two things: you don't really know what you are looking for and because you don't know what you are looking for, you stall and wonder. You can ask most of your friend about this and a general group of them would tell you Guy 2 is better... a safer bet.

If you never knew what you are actually looking for in a person, you will always have this problem... the problem of choices.

Cheers