Aunt Agony 010506 (Continue from AA 29/30-0406)

Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):
huh?? then how? what is the solution??? :cry:



Are you even enlightened to understand that having multiple partners doesn't equate to fulfilment?

If you do understand and desire to cease such relationships, are you even able to upkeep it that way?

Having fark buddies contribute to a playing unevolved mindset - are you even prepare to give them up?

Are you able to see a woman beyond sex? Are you able to date a woman because you are truly in Love and able to separate Love from Lust?

Are you able to gauge a woman based on her compatibility with you and are you able to date a 'right' woman that suits you? (Right as in available woman that doesn't introduce obvious complication).

Are you able to see that having a proper relationship will eventually lead to marriage? You don't have to marry every woman you date, but ultimately are you even afraid of settling down in a monogamy relationship?

Are you prepared for the sai kang in a proper relationship? Will you be running away from problems and return back to your original mode where it is much easier to handle, since there isn't much commitment involved? Are you willing to pay the price that comes with commitment, which you will pay less as your relationship stabilize?

P.S: Get your fundamentals right - all will gradually fall into place.

Cheers