Aunt Agony 070506

Originally posted by Patrik:
Happy waiting.
This is my 6th year waiting.


Hate to say this but the years-waiter are usually those waiting because there isn't any alternative ship in sight for them to pursue, thus they simply wait for the sake of waiting.

In fact, they ain't waiting.

It seemed that 'not actively pursuing another partner' has become the definition of wait.

The more years you 'wait', than more 'devoted' you seemed.

Rubbish.

What is the end result you desire?

To be with that particular someone you desire despite the length of time?

If he/she were to accept you, he/she would probably accepted you LONG AGO.

Why is there a need for a lengthy wait? (Calculated wait is NOT aimlessly, lengthy and meaningless wait)

I know of this man who began chasing my friend's mum before she was married, in marriage and after divorce... and still chasing. Finally after eight freaking years, she finally accepted him.

She accepted NOT because of Love.

But because she didn't have much of a choice - she married to security.

P.S: Pursue a relationship that truly meant to be yours and in turn, yours to be proud of.

Cheers