Aunt Agony 280707

Originally posted by Normal^Guy:
okok..the story starts like this..there's these two girl, we name it A and B..we have been in the same class for almost 2 years le..and A and B are very very good friends almost like real sis bah..

So during the 1st yr, i admitted tt i do have feelings for A, by the way the 3 of us is really very very good friends..and i guess tt almost my whole course are toking abt Mi and A..SO it's like whenever u see an orange u will tot of where is apple..It's like we are a pair in others ppl eyes le..But the fact is We are nv together before..

So after tt ard 1 year plus le, i was been sent to overseas for some assig..and i also try to make full use of this chance to try to forget A..and the feeling for A is really fading away after tt overseas assig..

So after a period of time..B comes into the pic..one day she admitted tt she have feelings for mi..and frankly speaking i do have feelings for her too..and things starts to goes well..and everything goes well..

But she has rejected mi once and i ask her the reason behide it, and she told mi is bcoz she do not know how to face most of the friends bcoz of the rumours "abt mi and A"..but after which i still can't forget abt B..and we meet out to tok abt this topic and i declare my feelings to her and we are offically together now..

But i dun really know how to break the news to our friends..coz it might be too unacceptable for them..So should mi and B con't our r/s ?? Coz to mi if we con't to be together, i am really afraid tt A and B will turn out not to be as good as last time bcoz of mi..and i really dun wan this to happen..Or in short, B might lost a good friend(A) bcoz of mi..and now i am stuck in this suitation..Help..

Further more is tt A and B will further their study together for another 3 years more..But i really really want to con't this jus-started-r/s with her..How?????Wat should i do?? thx for the time for reading and sorry for my long story..


Sometimes I really wonder if all these deliberate stalling stemmed from being nonchalant or really calculated moves made by people. And also, I wonder why is there a need for such histrionic attempt to build a plot around a possibility?

FI has kinda sum up everything in her own words; why are you even worrying over a problem that has not yet materialise? It's good to keep that in view, but not to the extend of fretting over it as if you are truly facing that crisis now.

I think the most injustice you could ever do to your relationship is to lie low as if it's criminally abominable to engage in your chosen love - it goes to any relationship that cannot keep it's presence glorious. In fact, when you do something like these, you are effectively conveying to people that there's something terribly unglamorous or even fishy, and this aura might actually be the reason that A turns away from you two. Previously, you three were good friends and now that you and B becomes an item, you close up your world and 'keep secrets' among yourselves?

Now tell me, who's really pushing people away?

Do you seriously think that you could keep this from her forever by doing what you are doing now? That's utter naive.

Why bother so much about people's comment? I can tell you that most of the time, it's probably just part of a typical conversation. Probably you are the one adding more meat to this 'bone'.

Why live your love according to people's expectation?

If there's something you need to learn out from this: learn to be true to yourself. That will save you the misery of pretence.

Cheers