Aunt Agony 290707

Originally posted by jojobeach:


Actually, my mom is worried if I lose my virginity , no man would want me.
But, they told my brother to go ahead and screw as many girls as he can.

Do you really believe virginity is sacred meh ?
I still see so many men divorce their wife who were virgins.
So virgin or not , it doesn't mean anything after all what ?




It's a concept.

Even if you must divorce, it must be a 'first-hand'.

Somewhat like buying shoes/heels for ladies. I know of people who refuse to purchase display version just because many people have 'tried' it. Of course even if they are going to abandon it for the next S/S season, it still must be a 'first hand'.

Why?

Because they are the ones having it - the concept of possession.

Cheers



Originally posted by jojobeach:

So men who practice this sacred virgin concept, sees women as mere objects.


No man will readily say that they see woman as mere objects - but when intense feelings are aroused around such notion, their disappointment and misery derive from their subconscious belief of possession, not as in literal meaning, but as in this is their woman and she belongs to him. This itself is the concept of possession for their woman must come 'untainted' and will view her as 'lesser' when she arrive in ' less-than-satisfied' condition.

Why would anyone, when bathed in true essence of love, judge their partner based on the concept of sacred virgin when they should be focusing on the woman herself and what she really is? Of course, when people greatly mind over something so insignificant, his love is reduce to that level of 'possession' - probably no difference between him and ladies shopping for heels.

Perhaps in that sense, it might just be possession - not love.

Cheers