Originally posted by Bz2t:
want to ask if anyone of u here have gf/bf staying very far from u. for me , im staying at sembawang but my gf is staying at tampines area .. this has made it very hard for us to meet up. we had many quarrels because of this.. blaming each other for not taking the effort to make enough time to meet up.
and also , she will be going to TP after taking her "O" level result and im schooling at NP :cry: with all the projects and school matters to handle .. im afraid that our r/s wld go from bad to worse. :(
we truely love each other but i think this r/s is going no where :roll: should we break up??? :|
Sembawang and Tampines considered long distance?
I think those leading LDR will probably laugh.
The greatest distance is often not that of the physical distance, but rather, it's the emotional distance between you and her.
If your relationship crumbles - it's probably too fragile within to survive in the harsh reality of Love.
Imho, even if she is just next block away from you, it will still fail.
Because you are just expecting things to fall nicely in place when you fall in love.
Like any other aspects of your life - if you don't put in the effort to upkeep and make it better, it will just perish gradually. Don't always hope for the best possible situation and the best possible mate - it never happens.
Our relationship are always imperfect - because we are imperfect ourselves.
We grow from imperfection and struggles, so as to polish our personality and character.
Cheers
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