Originally posted by tek_koh:
what about the still burning flame for each other.
You kept harping on this invisible flame that burns - or you reckon that it still does - but what effect does this fire have in your Love? Does it still give you the strength and endurance to continue ploughing the field of the relationship?
Or perhaps you are just afraid of abolishing this security you always enjoyed within the boundary of your relationship, to pursue something outside this familiarity, by artificially having to fuel this dying flame.
You questioned the identity of your relationship and could still tell me about this burning flame for each other?
A burning flame signifies the immerse drive to overcome the struggles in your relationship - not just helpless emotions capable of only 'feeling' and not 'initiating', for if you belong to the former, it simply doesn't justify the reason why you should drag things on.
'Feelings' are but product of our complicated emotions. If you reckon that there are still greater reasons why you should hang on, I say do something about it and not just sit by and watch the relationship decay gradually. Because if there isn't any motivation to do so; your burning flame is probably imaginary.
You probably made it exist.
Cheers
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