Aunt Agony 150108

Originally posted by abterror:

Hi all,

I would like to hear your opinion from both genders.

how many of you guys and gers have been thru all these?

And what is your perception of this.

Personally, I have been thru all these.

Some ppl will view it as great passion will lead to great anger.

I fought with my ex-gf b4. eg push and hold her down.

Sometimes it is anger and act of defence mechanism. (she has a very fiery temper)

But i will just put it aside the next day and view it as an act of communication.

But to her, she viewed me as an aggressive person.

On the other hand, the common practice now is

Guys is usually at fault, reason we are physically stronger.

And gentleman kind of expectation which is seeked from us.

So what is ur stand ladies and gentlemen.

Many point of views have been dished out; so I will quote something out from CloUdiSm.

In a relationship, there is a constant imaginary scale, affecting individual growth and the bloodline of the relationship to achieve a strange equilibrium. This equilibrium will seek to neutralise two souls into one functional relationship, forcefully alleviating or degenerating either party to equal out the other in terms of personality, character, mindset, esteem, confidence, perception, emotional state, sexual needs, material possession, etc.

What I mean is that if we chose an abusive partner who brandished a temper shorter than a troll's nose, for the relationship to continue functioning, this imaginary scale will either

I) Degenerate your level to that of this abusive partner; fight fire with fire (Mars influenced). Your relationship declines.

OR

II) You subdue her temper and evolve her personality with Love. You alleviates her condition and that of your relationship to your enlightened state; you fight fire with water (Venus influenced). Your relationship achieve a breakthrough - it grows.

I never believe in physical confrontation because there's never a need for it. There might be a need to teach maturity for those who sees reason in getting physical. That itself, requires a human revolution.

It's a self thing - not a Love thing.

Cheers