Aunt Agony 170307

Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:
How often does your gf didn't respond to your SMS or call?
If she always care to explain who is she with, eg go out with gal friends to shop or drink, after sometime do you feel fishy?



If one has the intention to cheat, he/she will cheat, insofar as to do whatsoever possible to keep it hidden (although with time, everything will be known eventually).

It's not about girls; in fact, it's about the personality of the person. Some people do not feel the need to report their SMS/calls when they out with a group of friends - I used to be like that. Of course if you are not pleased with such behaviour, you have to talk to her about your insecurities.

It's always possible to manage personal space and 'couple's regulation' harmoniously. But if her previous relationship was like that, it would probably take a couple of years’ worth of communication, understanding and compromising before a lasting, viable solution will be in place.

The key is to keep communicating.

Cheers