Aunt Agony 040307

Originally posted by Gigs:
hey, what u guys/gals did in order to forget a past relationship?
i've ended my last relationship for a yr+ already.
But dont seems able to let go.. in the sense that...... i cant seems to open myself up to make new frens etc.. not ready to give space to others to start a new relationship at all.. keep comparing any potentials that comes along with my ex... si lahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh



The ironic things is that the more you try to coerce yourself to forget, the notion of 'forcing' will inevitable cause you to remember more intensely.

People are unable to release themselves off their past is because they largely prefer to dwell what's in the past than to face what's in the future. It's always a choice for the majority to choose the familiar than to opt for an uncharted territory. (Esp. Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius)

Rather the evil you know than the evil you don't.

And the root of departure is often not understood spiritually. Many often view failure in relationship as reason to degenerate and not reason to evolve. Some refused their cosmic lesson, while others reiterate their future relationship around previous flaws, forming this classic karmic chain that affects relationship after relationship... over and over again. Only a handful is emotionally wise enough to evolve positively, regardless of whether the motivation to evolve is of malign/benign source.

How long does it need for you to understand the theory of moving on? It depends on how fast you understood the concept of moving on. Because moving on is not simply just logical words said by somebody and you are then 'enlightened' to move on.

You must source for the reason within and sell it to yourself. If you do not believe in why you must move on, you will never move an inch.

Cheers