Aunt Agony 111105

Originally posted by Not_nice_person:
i'm a guy and i have a gf of 4 yrs..thinking of breaking up wif her cause i cant tolerate her temper any longer.

I apologised so many times but she still dun want to accept..

I treat her so well, but tat;'s all i get :cry: why? issit because i'm of low education? i quit sc h ard sec 3 to work, but she is undergrad so she haf the right to put me down and treat me like dirt?


why people have a cert and they r so hao liao abt it? everytime she does something wrong, i keep quiet. I dun want to incur her and her complains and her frens sarport her not me, cause they see me of low education mah

guys, what wld u do if uwere in my shoes? why girls nowadays talk until like tat?


As you people begin to debate if his slap is justifiable or not... to me, it doesn't really matter. IMHO, NNP isn't a violent person by personality for if he is indeed one... such undesirable acts would litter throughout his 4 years relationship and NOT just that particular day.

However, there is an issue.

And is seemed that this relationship is divided by a splitting chasm; the once Love has mutilated by evolving definition and perception of what a good Love ought to be like. This is because our needs changes as we grow with time - what we originally seek may not be what we want ultimately... What we could give... may not be what they want eventually.

Low education doesn't matter in the past, but it seemed to matter right now. What happens is that she begin to see how 'equal status' is of growing importance to her - measured by society's standard. This is a generating need in making, vastly different from what you seek in your own relationship.

There is a contrast in definition; causing you two to look in separate direction. One of the worst thing in Love.

Believe in the beauty of willingness for it makes no meaning for a relationship to continue IF we bear such intense unhappiness and discontentment. If we are willing to remain in our Love, we must be convinced that there are reasons why we are still hanging around.

It seemed that you are losing that reason and she... uncovering new reasons to top her agenda: on her new expectations. The girl you INITIALLY fell for... has gone. Similarly, the guy she INITIALLY fell for... has vanished.

Love that has gone sour...

Cheers