Aunt Agony 300407 (Updates from old case)

Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:

I agree. I think i am just a pawn that she is playing with. Just don't understand why she do not love me or even care for me. For what I have done, she is just leaving for good. Why can't we maintain as friends? She just left SG without informing me or leave anything for me?

Love is so cruel. Why?


(*Case is based on AA 131205 and AA 131205 II*)


I realized people who love using this statement - love is cruel - possessed that kind of archetype personality that somehow reckon that their life drew divine interest in making things miserable for them or making them 'protagonist' in this 'love serial drama' watched by higher entities.

Some people simply loved to portray themselves as sentimental for the wrong reasons.

It started out as a sexual transaction and now you are lamenting that she doesn't love you? And you still question why she doesn't love you?

Do you even see the irony of your statement? Or do you truly believe that you are sentimental or you want people to think that you are?

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This is probably a Neptune phenomenon: of men completely luckless with woman dates, ending up in some whorehouse, got intimate with the one drab there and ended up getting emotional over her.

The general sequence in dating is as follows:

Interest > Attraction > Seduction.

In paid sex, it apparently gives you the illusion of being in the seduction stage. The man is empowered when the woman becomes sexually submissive. If he has the money, it seeming remove the need for stirring interest and forging attraction and you still get sex. The new found emotions in these inexperienced men were mistaken as 'approaches' in the dating scene and gradually, the unhealthy obsession transformed itself on subconscious level, seeing the transaction not merely a transaction, but as a 'point of contact' where love will foster from there on.

Don't bite off from than you can chew – there’s nothing else you should do or get involved beyond that of sexual favours you get from her.

Start dating REAL WOMAN. If you are telling me that this is love for you, then start taking REAL ACTION.

Cheers