Originally posted by givemeluck:
how do u guys feel when u know u are juz a spare tyre to her ?(she's attached) , or hopelessly continue this short term relationship knowing that one day she will leave u ? i seriously don't know what to do , i cant give up on her at this moment. i tried once to take a step back , but i go back to her again within a few days.
short and sweet(give up) or long and bitter(stay on) ?
There is no point telling yourself to move along if you do not even understand the essence why you have to make that choice. It's like trying do something without truly knowing why you should do it.
It's no surprise that eventually you would saunter back to this pit of suffering.
If you felt strongly that you are nothing but a spare tyre, it's up to your own wisdom to determine if you don't mind being a spare tyre or if you want to grasp hold of yourself and make a wise choice for once.
Telling yourself you can't do it signifies a lack of enlightenment. In my own words, it probably means you have not 'wound' yourself deep enough to see the 'light of the tunnel.'
You mentioned that you are suffering - but why doesn't it substantiate your will to leave her?
P.S: It doesn't matter whether you leave her or not; at the very least, when you are in a relationship, you must be happy leading it. If you are wretched and miserable, I suggest you do something to undo that curse.
Cheers
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