hey everyone its me again. i have a rather basic question that some of you may be able to help me with. i've been thinking a lot more about my relationship with my good friend and i think this may the real problem i have.
this friend that i think i like, i enjoy spending time with her and talking to her one on one but i not sure if i really LIKE her. i think about her more these days and i want to spend more time with her. i've been friends with her for quite a while already, so i'm quite comfortable with her and enjoy her company everytime we go out. ok maybe i watch too many hollywood movies liao, but i feel like i'm not head over heels with her like i should be if i'm in love with her.
okay so this may sound really dumb :roll:
ok i prob sound confused, slightly dumb, and some of you are prob confused about what i'm saying too... hope someone can give some advice tho :D
This is what happen that there is too much 'air activity mechanism' - there's too much thinking involved in the process of love. It's like you are trying to figure out some kind of mental visual in which you try to justify love as love and to work it out based on a set of thoughts before you execute something. (Usually worst if you are a Libra, Aquarius, Gemini or Virgo)
You cannot think that you like - you know that you like and you have to feel it inside. Because chances are, if that didn’t happen, it will return to haunt you in later stage... in whatever form it may appear to you mentally and emotionally.
Firstly, you got to understand how your current emotional state is like. Being lonely or certain craving for a girlfriend surely blur this 'liking' further.
From there, it's up to you to make a decision.
Nobody holds the final answer in love - our decision gives us an answer so that we can search for the next following question.
Cheers
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