Aunt Agony 121206

Originally posted by bee_gal:
my relationship with my bf just started being together for 3 weeks, after knowing him for 3 1/2 months.

During the 3 1/2 months that he was courting me, we spent lotsa time on the phone and we went on dates every weekend. From monday to thurs, we will chat every nite on the phone, and every friday to sun, we would go dating.

During this 3 1/2 months, i have begun to like him more and more and we were officially together 3 weeks ago.

Since 2 weeks, he has been really busy. it started with him being extremely bz with his work and we have not really been talkin on the phone. we only met on weekend. The last sat, when we were out, he suddenly said his only younger sister met an accident and he had to go home.

Since then, we hadnt really talked much cos he said he had been in the hospital. he has sms me now n then, but not much. I also didnt call him cos dun wanna disturb him.

I dunno why i feel so insecure about the whole thing, that after we are together, suddenly he is so occupied by this and that.

Am i oversensitive?


If you are going to benchmark your love based on mutual company and how the lack of it signifies a reduction in love and affection - your relationship is going to hit a dead end sooner or later.

Understand that the more intense the fire burns, the faster it will extinguish itself.

More of such scenarios are pending to arrive - if you are expecting relationship to be uneventful, you face more insecurity and disappointment.

It seemed to me that you are either a woman who totally abhor changes or one that sees love as company. Not that it's wrong, but overemphasise on one's company is unhealthy.

Broaden your mind and heart a little - don't be so narrow in perspective.

Cheers