Aunt Agony 050306

Originally posted by Bates:
There is a gal i like her in college time, but she is already occupied that time i was really happy to be friend with her.
After graduate we all didn't see each other for fews month already, she is from malaysia
Recently she come to spore for training, then she look for me, of course i become a happy man again. In these few short day, we are like couple playing with each other without over friendship (i try but she is not allow)
At first i was worry after i hold her hand, hug her, make our relationship become worst if she is not allow. but she "mian qiang" allow but not allow me to kiss her.
We just like couple play with each other, then i tell her actually i like her a lot but she got boyfriend already ( i hav no intention to break her relationship with her bf), BUT wht i can feel is she also quite like me really. But always in my mind is she is always respect her bf..
actually she is not a "sui bian " gal. i feel so down when she back to malaysia already, i try to sms her without some feel of love words but seem she reply me with others things to avoid me to have the feel. Sign...feel so down, the gal i don't like is waiting for me, the gal i like is occupied, i wish to her to listen her voice but i didn't, i dont' know wht i can say to her anymore...



You are attempting to 'win over' her so that there might be a possibility that she might adjure her relationship to be with you.

This desire is so vehement that your body language spells it so powerfully.

Have you ever thought that even if she is single (or succeeded in your undercutting), this relationship would be an LDR?

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Understand circumstances

Understand compatibility.

And most importantly, understand time.

There are some people we can never accept or be with, because there is a clash of the above three component.

Cheers