Aunt Agony 110806

Originally posted by ahkico:
My mum doesn realli agree with mi bein with him..

I"m in poly.. He drop out of ITE.. In other words.. His career won bring him to the high up positions out in the workin world..

2 mi.. I love him with all my heart.. I dun wan think abt all the education status quo.. TRue.. sOmetimes i do mind tis bit.. But i jus shrug it of..

Even though he isn well educated.. But we're able to communicate on the same level.. Wat matters to mi is tat so long we love each other.. It's tis tat counts..

My mum.. Keep naggin whenever i'm out with him.. Told her.. If now i dun go out.. wAt u wan mi to do??? @ tis age.. It's goin out to have fun!!!

She says he's not presentable to bring out.. LOL.. My heart shattered.. She doesn approve of him coz of his job.. He help out in his father's garage.. Changing tyres.. Etc..

My relatives quite belongs to the snoob typo.. I know they will surely jeer & sneer @ mi.. In my heart.. I somehow duno how i am goin face them.. If they ask mi.. Wat is he workin as???

Do i mind? I reali dunno myself.. But i'm prepared to accept all tis from the dae i got tog with him..

R we too clingy to each other?? Aren't datin couple like tat?? We meet up whenever we're free.. Sometimes almost every dae.. My mum will start nagging tat i keep goin out..

Wat could i do or say to make my mum accept him???



Everyone likes ready product - like how good rich this man is because the woman he marries is likely to lead a better life through better financial standing... more enticing to have.

But these are the tangible qualities - something where your parents could see from their angle, but nothing more than that.

How well is he a person; probably only you understood. This is the intangibles that cannot be measure or seen easily through the eyes of others.

And ultimately, you are the one responsibility for the man you choose at the end of the road.

WHETHER love has that power to drive him to strive for a better future, it's still too early to judge. At least your boyfriend WORKS and not slack around while having to rot his life away.

You mum has a negative automatic thought of his educational level; it is up to the both of you to change her biased mindset through deeds. If communication is a problem and you cannot dissuade her from thinking the way she does, then allow time to prove your stand.

Your parents think what's best for you; but they ain't you.

Even if your relationship were to fail and before they go saying 'Ah hah! I told you so...' - your parents should realized that you have grown up and ought to make important decision for your life. Failing your relationship doesn't mean the difference in education level; more likely, it is the same other 'viruses' that killed other relationship/s, which unfortunately strikes yours.

P.S: Learn that love is wholly yours to govern and that others' influence or vicious comments cannot affect your relationship unless you give them permission to do so. You are the security guard of your own relationship - the minute you accept what people think of your relationship, you view your relationship in dissatisfied angles pointed out by those people, although you have no issue with them originally.

Some people are congenitally born with longer hands, shorter legs and whatever.... Regardless, learn contentment. Men who treat their woman like dirt littered the back alley - When you love someone for who he/she is and love will evolve him/her and he/she will improve as your love deepens. If you look at one aspect in a person and chose the highest grade in that aspect, chances are, he/she will sacrifice other aspects of personality in exchange for this particular trait.

Nobody is born perfect. We accept those whom we reckon to be suitable and mould them to perfection... at least in our eyes.

Cheers