Aunt Agony 300806

Originally posted by xShevchenkox:
When u treated her too well and too sincere, she dun appreciate it at all de
l still hav the shadows of my last r/s...l remember l was kept being scold and scold for no reason by my ex....even if l had try my best in putting things rite...l am still scold..the words that she used to scold me....the scolding of me continuosly had occasionally appeared in my mind and l feel tired and want cry out at times when l think of it...y must l be scold when l have done nthing wrong ? Imagine...sumone scolding you...and u hav to keep quiet and apologise...how is that feeling? Now l think back...it is like humiliation and l feel that my integrity and morality had been trampled... l will never be able to brush it away...not that l am petty...l oso dun noe how to put it.. My last r/s experience is too painful...sumhow l reali hope this had not started in the 1st place, although it has been the past....l am not sad anymore...but the scar of this incident still is in me...From this incident..l learn sumtinz too...

R/s is sumtinz that reali nver last...the 1st 3 months maybe honeymoon period, after that into quarrels and conflicts and then into breakup...kinda sad.. dont understand what they want oso

Maybe in a r/s, l think it is better not to get engrossly into it...it might not hurt so much after all when u put in minimal efforts...

Some Girls, l dun meant all... cant be satisfied no matter how hard u try..


Originally posted by olala

Since ur mindset is rooted to the fact that locals girls are liek that,then u shld lookelse where

our locals gals cant make it in terms of charecter la
true la theres good one,but the chances of u throwing ur line in and hooking up seaweeds is so darn high



We are all stars, born without a name. Our potential is limitless.

Then we are brought up in human environment and are subjected to our harsh surrounding. We are affected by our immediate families, ethnic background, social/moral codes, religion, etc.

Then we shape a story we constantly repeat to ourselves.

This reiterated habit becomes part of our mindset, which unfolds our destiny.

And when we implement a mindset like Olala, our conviction becomes a truth; a distorted truth in which we follow and assume truth in distortion.

We continued to be led... in this unenlightened state, pointing fingers at others when the root of problem lies with ourselves. It's not hard to imagine how Love would have turn out eventually, because our core beliefs are filled with so much biased, negative perceptions that it impede our growth in love.

Is our pain inflicted by our partners? Or are we too verdant to understand our choices and our Love, which causes our agony?

We all fall badly somewhere in this cosmic journey of love, but how we handle this injury will reflect what's going to happen in the future. You are free to equip yourself with the mindset presented by Olala, I will not refute that opinion because everyone is entitled to theirs.

But pray tell me how is that going to assist you to a better person or even, to seek for a better relationship? Simply by hiding in an ivory tower and be cynical because you are now protective of your ego and reject powerful lessons that could built you?

This is the mindset you are going to adopt for yourself, which in turn, will have great influence on the kind of partner you will attract and how it will turn out to be. It is so much easier to go with the flow, reckon how Love is ephemeral, than having to walk against the current and surmount it.

This is your inaugural relationship and you have just barely started.

And if you can't even surpass this by accepting it as a larger picture to your eventual journey in love, you will perish before you achieve anything in love.

P.S: Arrogance and conceited ego has no place in Love. Those that adopted it will witness how love would attempt to reshape our defiant spirit and introduce chaos to annihilate our wrecked mindset.

P.S: Arrogance and conceited ego has no place in Love. Those that adopted it will witness how love would attempt to reshape their defiant spirit and introduce chaos to annihilate wrecked mindset.

Mature.

Cheers