Aunt Agony III 190807

Originally posted by huishan:
hi i long time never come in liao...hehe...by the way now i got two of my personal question about BG relationship want want to ask some of the boys and girls at there...by the way recently now got one guy like me...but i dont like him...but he keep on asking me to be his steady lei...haiz so stress...when we meet out...then he want hold my hand and kiss me...but i keep on pushing him away as i dun have that kind of feeling to him...i reject him is because now i already got someone in my mind...and he also know that i like him...but i dont think he will like me...because think he still haven forget his ex gf...so now i only want to be friends with him first...but now i also dont know how...so does anyone can tell mi what to do?


To the man that you don't like: Perhaps you are subconsciously giving him the signal, despite claiming no love for this man pestering you.

If a man takes no hint from your lack of affection, it's always better to exert actual proof of a rejection, instead of 'saying-one-thing-and-doing-another'. Simply put, why are you even meeting this guy if he's so relentless in his pursuit?

Our action speaks louder than words; each time you accepted his date, it signifies a gleams of hope. You can say a million times that you don't like him, but your actions will convey a message ten times stronger.

To the man that you like: be around him at the right moment. However, since you probably can't determine when would that be, just have your presence felt within 'vision'. With time, he will probably get over it - all you need to a good gamble to avoid being a substitute for his ex-gf.

You probably can't coerce someone to like you, but at the very least, you can take calculated risk to avoid becoming a target for a potential rebound.

Cheers