Valentine's Day

Actually I don't really fancy vday.

Because it is too commercialised.

Have you seen it?

People doing aggressive selling... all sort of lovely thingy that costs a bomb. (Although money is not an issue to me, but that day has lost much of its original meaning that spending that money makes no emotional sense. It seemed that you must be a willing victim to be [i]tok [/i]by people in order to demonstrate your love and affection).

People worrying about being seen alone.

I seen people, spent hundreds of dollars and more.

Buy this buy that.

In the end, their relationship still fail.

Interestingly, people in this era are willing to splurge the money they probably saved for a long time; ironically, they refuse spent that little effort to work out differences in relationship, which actually goes a MUCH longer way in their relationship than flowers and chocolates.

Maybe like me, money may not be an issue to you.

Similar to you having ten dollars and giving one dollar may seemed nothing.

But like me, is your relationship important to you?

Everyday is a valentine's day when your relationship is strong and passionate.

Everyday HAS to be a valentine's day, if you want your relationship to bloom like flowers in spring.

Guys with girls and girls with flower = norm.

But when you have hundreds and thousands of couple with the same combination, it has become = statistic.

Read today's Newpaper (120206) a Spore's Valentine Story.

I don't know... it touched my Aries Moon.

These people have very little, but they gave all.

Similar to them having forty cents and giving forty cents.

I remember when I was in Church (I am not a Christian, but I was there when I was little), there are people who gave alot for tithing. I see notes after notes.

I was like amazed by the amount they could give.

Someone told me 'Actually, it is because they have alot, so it actually means nothing to them.'

I only have a couple of cents.

And I dropped it in.

'It's only a small amount, but it is all I have...'

They are fighting WITH their relationship... literally.

The day when couples are indulging in hedonistic pleasure, these people are struggling with sheer love and willpower through their daily living.

Is your relationship another statistic... where it is measure by how much you wealth you bleed on vday?

Or is yours like the sick, old couples: measure through conviction, faith and power of love?



Cheers