Aunt Agony 270206

Originally posted by Fey Mae:


but what if im talking about a 100 kg type? must look past alot of fats before you see the inner beauty wor.

and usually im very sensitive towards people but of late im starting to doubt myself. a guy i like (no not fat, fairly decent looking, tall, dark atheletic type) asked me out :? (whos fat and unattractive) is it possible he is just feeling bad cos im so obviously nice to him that hes just giving me a treat only. he did not specify his intentions :oops: and im not sure if his oblivious to my feellings and still continue to mislead me or he actually liked me.


Our self perception is almighty. If we reckon and believe that we are somewhat inferior compared to others, when in fact we possess the same human nature and parts, we will always have very poor image of ourselves.

This will affect our attitude and definition towards all form of love relationship, which in turn, affects the so called 'destiny' in love.

I only believe in evolving.

If there is something stultifying your journey to a better self image, do what you must to restore those lost esteem within constructive means.

People who tell you that others must accept you for who you are... do not understand your plight.

YOU must inculcate a robust motivation to create positive changes that would gradually mould your esteem.

You may not realise, but you have ALL the power in YOUR HANDS to deliver and see those changes in yourself.

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I came across a real story, about this woman 80-90kg, who ended up with this man. Even though the man loved her for who she was, she decide to shed those weight so as to reinforce, through concrete action, that his decision to be with her will NOT be a mistake right from the beginning.

Love mould her... love conjured the frenzy motivation.

She is 45-48 now.

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Love is about understanding ourselves. Never mind about whether he is interested in you or not. When you understood the essence of what I want to drive across and implement them, you will discover that attraction power doesn't come with physical outlook - it comes with HOW we see ourselves through our own vision. If we are unable to achieve that perception, we work hard to enable us to.

Cheers