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Originally posted by slamdoink:
Well, it had happened again… this time round I lose the battle. My gf went to work as usual and I asked if she wanted mi to fetch her home after her work. She said she need to do OT and might be late. So I said ok and if you changed your mind, I will be here.
The next morning, I received an SMS from her.
She told me she met up with her ex and her ex told her; he wanted to settle down with her as in get married with her. They told thru the nite and they make out.
I was shocked when she told mi that and the first thing that comes to my mind wasn’t the make out part but rather would she still want mi? we talked for couple of hours and she hinted she wanted to be with me. She just need time to settle things with him. And she did!!! He was out of her life!!! However he played the disappearing act and it caught my gf attention. She felt lost and seems like she cant live without him!!!
They patched back after she told me she had chosen mi. she say sorrie and sorrie… im not angry with her actually I encourage her. Cos if you never try, you will always be bother about this… am I stupid or wat… but I just lost the battle…
i love her a lot but i cant bear to see her to be sad... well once always say is better to have two happy person rather than to have three sad people...
but i really love her... can someone just pull mi out from this black hole!!!
It's a young relationship unaccustomed to its new future; your love is 4 months old, but it seemed that life before the relationship is born is pretty vague. It seemed to me that you don't really know the woman you are getting before jumping into a relationship. If she has an unsettled affair/relationship with her ex, by knowing that piece of information in the first place, would it change anything? Possibly, it would caution yourself before devoting your time and love into this BGR.
Interestingly, you are not really bothered by her act of infidelity, but the question of whether she wants the relationship hovers your heart. And what on earth are you encouraging her? A love blinded Leo? Blinded by the affection and love this karmic relationship brings forth and veils your senses?
Don't be a fool. 
If you can't bear to see her sad and since she loved her ex, probably as much as you did to her, then what's holding you back? What's holding you back, if you truely understood what you just posted?
You are likely a substitute/rebound for her ex and she played an emotional parasite on her part. She wants to move on, but the variables were: she got into a relationship with you and trying to move WHILE handling you and her past simultaneously. This process leeched emotional energy, mental strength and summon rain of tears. Somewhat like a soul being captured by demonic powers and you are needed to remove that vile thing. Of course, you will be drained... probably to death, dry and parched.
She was never ready for a relationship with you - this is a untold truth.
Why?
If love is in the picture, would that scenario ever happen? She would probably struggle emotionally, but it could still be manageable. Making out? Can't live without him? Leave you whenever she found his presence? Is this the so called love you are getting?
Don't be deluded by false love; she has made her choice. It's your call.
Cheers
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