Aunt Agony 090607

Originally posted by vice_edge:
hi im kinda of in a fix. between choosing between 2 girls..

first is A , i met her during the jc first 3 mnths and she was the same og as me. as soon i no her , i feel that i had a crush on her and felt tat she was the one. i confess to her before but didn't ( forgot the reason ). She treats her frens like gold and she frequently hangout with girls only i found out. And now we are both in the poly but diff. course , i sms her but she seldom reply .. but i do realli like her alot.

next is B, met her during my amths tuition last time . she is realli cheerful and is the kind of mummy's girl. i always like to chat with her on phone but the prob is her mum.. her mum does not allow her to go out with any of her frens except church fren cos the mum no all the church frens she has...

Both girls to me are realli nice ppl, but they r not chio realli when my frens saw their face but to me , i look on the inside not the outside.. so ya im in a fix... got studies to manage.. plus i not rich, lanky and got the small boy nerd look . im quite shy in front A but when it comes to my frens and B im quite open.. though i didn't successfully jio A but i stil miss her alot but im confused when i think of B..

i dun realli no alot of ppl cos im quite introvert since young only no how to stay at home and mug.. besides got some dumb scholarship to maintain.. but im a single child plus parents retiring soon n i like 16... soon need to sure get attached de. Can any1 provide me some advice appreciate ur help thx :cry:


None of the two girls have responded your affection.

So technically is not a choice between two - you have many other choices outside them; you only choose to limit yourself.

Not that you can't pick your liking among the two, but it seemed to me that you are more inclined to that of a 'market shopping' to see which deal can strike first or is better than the other.

Can we technically 'shop for love?' - it's for you to judge.

[quote]...n i like 16... soon need to sure get attached de[/quote]

Who says when you reached age of 16, you probably need to be attached? Of course I am not advocating you to have your first girlfriend at age of 35 if you can possibly avoid it, but why do you need to incarcerate yourself with your chronological age?

Therefore, it's pretty much the 'thing' that you want as you see it as an age-related need and not actual influence from Love itself.

Self evaluate - your confusion stem from not knowing yourself and your affection. As what Sun Tzu says 'He who has a thorough knowledge of himself and the enemy is bound to win in all battles.'

Cheers