Aunt Agony 080106

Originally posted by yuntian:
sorry this post repeated ....i post wrongly....


tanks for the comments, replies and suchs....
realli feel very enlightened and touched by all yr replies....realli...

after some thought, i came up with this theory(or thought)....

wat i find ironic is tt ( generally, apply to everyone, i think..) is tt when u reject someone, its because tt u find him(her) ~undesirable(maybe not pretty enough? attitude sucks? yada, yada)....
therefore, u r 'superior', have a choice, and is so called the 'better' person...

but, when someone( tt u like~ of course :D ), rejects u (FOR THE SAME REASONS)....even if he(she) dun say it out....

it sucks...and it's ironic.....

wat do u guys think....tats wat i feel now, and tt promped mi to start this thread....

..as usual, pls post all yr comments, suggestion, and if u tink im crapping, can slap mi(verbally) if u wan.... :D p.s.~ if u dun understand wat im saying....can ask la....



Nobody like rejections, therefore it is natural to feel 'sucks'.

And you are saying that the person who issues the rejection, holds the power to make the decision and thus, putting him/herself high up in a pedestal, which implied 'superiority'.

Does it ever happen IF Love saturate within her psyche and insinuate her to be in a relationship with you? Without considering vast possibilities, a simple equation would be if love was present in her, she would naturally desire a relationship with you and if it never existed, this desire will not be available as well.

So whoever that accepted that BGR proposal, technically, he/she have to be 'inferior' in order to accept the relationship? Because he/she has to bring to your level, which suggested on a lower plane, when she actually had the power to be above all?

In reality, there are actually people who feel 'inferior' when they are in the position of 'being chased' and not necessary at the apex they are offered.

Inferiority and superiority complex is a state of mind. It only reflects the person overall esteem.

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Love is Freewill.

This is the First Law of Love.

The birth of relationship is based on individual freewill.

P.S: Love may be uncontrollable factor, but a relationship is within our span of control. (CloUdiSm Remix III)

Cheers