Originally posted by browniebaobao:
i know what u are driving at.
i remember our conversation.
like wat u said, there's a blockage.. duno when then i can evolve and be conditioned..
Really appreciate all the replies here..
I know certain things really have to 慢慢来..
无奈.. 看到别人幸福时, 不禁感叹自己的幸福渺茫。
Actually it depends on how determined you are to change your own 'fate'. Either one decide upon calculated wait or you got to initiate a change to an existing chess piece that needs adjustment badly. Most people resigned to themselves without much of a fight and get subjected to all sort of environmental influences that they picked up unconsciously and adopt into their self belief. Eventually, these new assimilated information get entangled into their mindset and they form a distinctive negative outlook and definition towards Love & Relationship.
Such negativity actually promotes the notion of 'I-am-like-that-so-I-will-be-like-that' - which, imho, does little good to one's attitude, even to his/her life as a whole.
A relationship does not mark an end of a journey, but a beginning of a new experience, riding on a continuous growing process that began way back even before the person is attached. One does not learn about Love only when he/she is attached - rather, a relationship spring forth a series of test that seeks to assess your understanding of self love and individual evolution. If such training doesn't exist during your singlehood, then the price you pay for learning certain cosmic lessons will double during BGR and cost will triple (or more) if you are married.
Take your time to recover, but you must simultaneously seek to liberate this psychological bondage you have cramp yourself into. Adopt what's beneficial to you and remove those that only work to hinder your advancement. Only then you can see results in every aspects of your life.
Cheers
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