Aunt Agony 261007

Originally posted by magical_wen:

Hey guys,

ask u ah..

will u accept a girl ,16, who is no longer a virgin (done 3 times)?

will u be able to trust someone who dun even respect herself?

:| :| :|

In a veri short period of time..

i didnt know her veri veri well..

jus dat sometimes when someone says she loves u alot

i doubt whether theres any truth in it..

There is two distinctive notions in your topic and I would like to reframe it for you:

I) Would you accept a girl who isn't a virgin?

II) Would you accept a girl who has history of short-lived relationship/flings?

Don't bother about lecturing morals of what you think is right or wrong - the main concern here is that moving forward: what will be your course of action?

You already mentioned that you don't really know her very well before coming together - which probably implied that love probably never existed in the first place. Surely with that revelation, you will be shaken with doubts because with that little liking you have for her, would you seriously think that it's substantial enough for you to accept a 'flawed good' as painted in your perception?

Only love is able to accept - anything else will fail utterly, no matter how you want to position your mindset.

If you are even questioning yourself about your decision to remain with her - I suggest you should just drop the relationship. If you cannot appreciate a woman beyond her physical component - don't worry because someone else would.

Release her then.

Cheers