Originally posted by Nobunaga Oda:
Its not that i did nothing.
when she is attached i couldnt say it.
cos both of them are my friends.
When she broke up before i could say it, the next day patched back.
When you have corroborates with your deeper emotions that you have indeed fallen in love with your good friend's girlfriend, it's probably a point of no return. And if you have decided to pursue this further, your friendship with him will surely be in jeopardy and therefore there will never be a suitable time to do/say anything because a suitable time will never materialise.
Even if they were to go on separate ways forever and if you succeed in chasing her, you will still be branded negatively by him and risk losing this friendship as well.
What's the difference?
Ren ai zhi you li, ai ren zhe you yong.
Originally posted by Nobunaga Oda:
I cant do anything now.
But wait or try to find a substitude.
So we found the real answer for waiting - it is to fill in the gap between a possibility and the next possibility, so as to prevent a void for germinating in our love life because it's better to have a fantasy pre-occupying our mind than to live along life with absolute emptiness in aspects of love and relationship (CloUdiSm - Neptune, Fantasy and Self).
Try to find a substitute?
I feel for your next crush because her appearance is probably merely a shadow of this woman, which is sad because you will forever live your love life using the yardstick of the past to work out your future equation.
There's a broader view of yourself and your situation, in which you have prepensely allowed yourself to look as narrow as possible.
In love with love or Love itself?
You might just want to figure that out in time to come.
Cheers
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