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Originally posted by ~Lyn~:
case 1: is it too much to request ur bf/gf to stop chat sms wif the opp sex whom ur bf/gf noe that party is interested in him/her? the thing is the other party knew ur bf/gf is attached le.. and
case 2: is it too much to request ur bf/gf to refrain from sms the opp sex? knowing that the other party might develop feelings for ur bf/gf?(the other party dunno that ur bf/gf is attached)
guys do u feel irritated if ur gf requested for the above?
Seriously, even though I had never ever impose that kind of thingy, but then its just me (vampire are different from mortal). Seriously, it's all about the old question of trust.
Trust and fear never go hand-in-hand. If you fear to lose your love, your trust level slip drastically, vice versa. And of course, if your bf is a Leo, chances are, he will be pretty annoyed by the restriction of freedom and choice.
I mentioned it a million times and would continue to mention: IF your LOVE desire to leave the relationship, it DOESN'T need situations like these to happen (a third-party, etc) in order for him to leave. If he wants to go, he will go regardless of reasons.
Willingness is a product of love - the absence of it will encourage separation. This is the same thing with headhunter - they will definitely fail to recruit the people, whom are terribly loyal to their current company. Money is NOT exactly the point - welfare is.
If your love is insufficient for him to remain, then it is back to the ultimate classic question: what's the use of retaining a man who doesn't cherish your love?
Trust never hurts. Only deception does.
Cheers
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