This is the classic law caught on photos: when you pose and snap picture of people sleeping - do anticipate possible reversal in the future. Heh!
P.S: But don't worry, I still love you all culprits (Ben, Xin & Mel) ^^
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Aunt Agony 231108
Originally posted by Galle77:
Sometime i still find myself missing him
Sometime i find myself hating him.
It has been two years since our break-up. I can't really forget what had happened in our relationships. The betrayal, his nasty words and his stupid attitude that had really hurt me over and over again without him really knowing there. I guess i ask for it. I should have just give myself a clear and cut break once and for all.
Sometime i still miss him. I miss myself loving him and his presence. I still have there feeling for him but i know we can never be together.
I still feel abit hard over the relationship. How can i let go of him completely with a smile and a laugh ?
Perhaps you should seek permission to forgive yourself first? Your inability to carry on life normally signifies an unclosed chapter in your life, in which the door got stuck and refuse to shut.
Before you declare that you require a 'clean-clear-cut-break' to truly move on: my question is why allow him (someone whom you probably deemed as a jerk) to have the control of exit in this chapter of your life? Why allow someone to manipulate your misery, especially since he would likely to be out enjoying himself while you are foolishly stuck at this junction, thinking about trying to resolve some self-generated dead-knot?
The decision to move on must come from your individual conviction and resolution. Nevermind if he didn't provide the answer you seek - the problem is about you making decision for yourself to seek the happiness you desire. And this desire is about the freedom to release yourself from the bondage of your previous relationship.
Learn acceptance.
From there, you will gradually understand that acceptance comes from tranquil via the heart and the only voice you need to listen is nobody but yourself.
Cheers
Sometime i still find myself missing him
Sometime i find myself hating him.
It has been two years since our break-up. I can't really forget what had happened in our relationships. The betrayal, his nasty words and his stupid attitude that had really hurt me over and over again without him really knowing there. I guess i ask for it. I should have just give myself a clear and cut break once and for all.
Sometime i still miss him. I miss myself loving him and his presence. I still have there feeling for him but i know we can never be together.
I still feel abit hard over the relationship. How can i let go of him completely with a smile and a laugh ?
Perhaps you should seek permission to forgive yourself first? Your inability to carry on life normally signifies an unclosed chapter in your life, in which the door got stuck and refuse to shut.
Before you declare that you require a 'clean-clear-cut-break' to truly move on: my question is why allow him (someone whom you probably deemed as a jerk) to have the control of exit in this chapter of your life? Why allow someone to manipulate your misery, especially since he would likely to be out enjoying himself while you are foolishly stuck at this junction, thinking about trying to resolve some self-generated dead-knot?
The decision to move on must come from your individual conviction and resolution. Nevermind if he didn't provide the answer you seek - the problem is about you making decision for yourself to seek the happiness you desire. And this desire is about the freedom to release yourself from the bondage of your previous relationship.
Learn acceptance.
From there, you will gradually understand that acceptance comes from tranquil via the heart and the only voice you need to listen is nobody but yourself.
Cheers
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Aunt Agony 221108
Originally posted by SV_190:
I have a stable girl friend for nearly two years , recently a girl who is younger than me appeared in my world ( her attiude and way she speak ) really assamble to my ex.
I started to feel like chatting with her so i tried to get to know her more , my friend gave me her contacts , she seem friendly and I feel comfortable chatting with her at times.
I tried to forget her but she kept appearing in my mind.
The stark resemblance does not signify anything - it is your attitude and perception towards such visual imaginary that seemed to suggest your karmic bond with this person. Such phenomenon is likely generated because of our irrevocable actions in the past that are generally beyond our scope of control. And because we can't turn back time to alter our regretful past, our present and future remained in status quo based on our earlier decision via freewill.
Albeit the law of causality might be rigid, but our minds and heart isn't. Hence, phenomenon of resemblance resulted in an implicit behavior/mindset that served under the theory of 'Time Machine' (CloUdiSm). Because in the realm where 'Love is blind', similarity will naturally (and usually automatically) perceived from the source where it first began and the seeming linkage is establish, although it pretty much illusional.
I will illustrate a simple example:
There are times when we felt that we made mistakes and regret in life, with regards to our previous relationship. Equally often, it might not be mistakes - perhaps we felt that we could 'do more' (whatever 'more' meant to you philosophically). And because the manifestation has already occur and we are unable to undo our circumstances, we shoulder certain unconscious anguish or bitterness that carries in our soul.
Such suppression are dormant and only brought into surface when the concept of time triggers a astrological/karmic pattern to bring forth such situation once again.
Then you might question - why such a phenomenon?
There are two likely reasons:
I) It served to test the foundation of your relationship. Those who are stuck in the misery of their past will often create the path of destruction for their relationship of the future.
II) The absence of graduation in prior cosmic lessons resulted in reiteration of the same chapter once again. What we cannot master, we learn again.
I suggest instead of first leading yourself into the direction of asking 'Should i just forget her quickly' - I reckon you should reframe your question and direct the question inwardly.
'What does this mean to me and my development in Love?'
You might want to understand if there's an action/s you wish to compensate for your previous failed relationship and unconsciously directing this effort towards this 'proxy'?
Also the identity of your relationship is being questioned as well.
'What does it means for your relationship and your gf?' Namely, is your current gf lesser in any aspect than a figure of the past?
Only with careful examination of yourself, would you be able to have the clarity to decide your course of action with wisdom.
Cheers
I have a stable girl friend for nearly two years , recently a girl who is younger than me appeared in my world ( her attiude and way she speak ) really assamble to my ex.
I started to feel like chatting with her so i tried to get to know her more , my friend gave me her contacts , she seem friendly and I feel comfortable chatting with her at times.
I tried to forget her but she kept appearing in my mind.
The stark resemblance does not signify anything - it is your attitude and perception towards such visual imaginary that seemed to suggest your karmic bond with this person. Such phenomenon is likely generated because of our irrevocable actions in the past that are generally beyond our scope of control. And because we can't turn back time to alter our regretful past, our present and future remained in status quo based on our earlier decision via freewill.
Albeit the law of causality might be rigid, but our minds and heart isn't. Hence, phenomenon of resemblance resulted in an implicit behavior/mindset that served under the theory of 'Time Machine' (CloUdiSm). Because in the realm where 'Love is blind', similarity will naturally (and usually automatically) perceived from the source where it first began and the seeming linkage is establish, although it pretty much illusional.
I will illustrate a simple example:
There are times when we felt that we made mistakes and regret in life, with regards to our previous relationship. Equally often, it might not be mistakes - perhaps we felt that we could 'do more' (whatever 'more' meant to you philosophically). And because the manifestation has already occur and we are unable to undo our circumstances, we shoulder certain unconscious anguish or bitterness that carries in our soul.
Such suppression are dormant and only brought into surface when the concept of time triggers a astrological/karmic pattern to bring forth such situation once again.
Then you might question - why such a phenomenon?
There are two likely reasons:
I) It served to test the foundation of your relationship. Those who are stuck in the misery of their past will often create the path of destruction for their relationship of the future.
II) The absence of graduation in prior cosmic lessons resulted in reiteration of the same chapter once again. What we cannot master, we learn again.
I suggest instead of first leading yourself into the direction of asking 'Should i just forget her quickly' - I reckon you should reframe your question and direct the question inwardly.
'What does this mean to me and my development in Love?'
You might want to understand if there's an action/s you wish to compensate for your previous failed relationship and unconsciously directing this effort towards this 'proxy'?
Also the identity of your relationship is being questioned as well.
'What does it means for your relationship and your gf?' Namely, is your current gf lesser in any aspect than a figure of the past?
Only with careful examination of yourself, would you be able to have the clarity to decide your course of action with wisdom.
Cheers
Monday, November 17, 2008
OSchool Recital 08
SY'D Crew (ok - still not used in saying that) - for those who are interested to buy the Oschool Recital tickets under me are required to pass me the cash or transfer to me the money LATEST by this Sat (22 Nov). It is $15 per pax, held in SP on 8 Dec.
For those who failed to do so are assumed to be purchasing on their own or are not interested to watch. Not to worry because it's free seating - so as long as you have your tickets, we can still sit together as a group.
Just a reminder that door sales are charged at $20 per pax.
Gam xia!
For those who failed to do so are assumed to be purchasing on their own or are not interested to watch. Not to worry because it's free seating - so as long as you have your tickets, we can still sit together as a group.
Just a reminder that door sales are charged at $20 per pax.
Gam xia!
Thursday, November 13, 2008
To xian Yunhaier
The power of my beauty is legendary. (Please click to understand why)
For the 123154135131241512515th times - I have been xian by guys online, yet again.
P.S: Email has been removed - mere courtesy.
Cheers
Jinwen X 铁扇公主's Fan
HOLLY SHIT!
SO THAT IS WHERE 铁扇公主's Fan WENT! The same freaking fan that extinguish 红孩儿's fire. (Pai seh, that's my cousin - with me being 云孩儿）
Ok - Jinwen is going to use it to blow Karen and Freddy away (二师兄 and 三师弟).
Don't say I never warn...
HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA!
Wang Lee Hom Concert 08
StarHub Presents 'Music Man!' =D
Woohoo! 黄绿红 on stage!
Music Man x Corporate MTKG.
Well it rocks to be in Marketing. I doubt I can get this kinda of shit if I am outside of there. =(
Cheers
Woohoo! 黄绿红 on stage!
Music Man x Corporate MTKG.
Well it rocks to be in Marketing. I doubt I can get this kinda of shit if I am outside of there. =(
Cheers
End of Exam
Officially, I have completed year one of my course.
Pretty much confident that I will advance to year two in 2009. At least one consideration down (only for now). I am getting more busy with every passing day - looking at all the projects we have on hands, I think it's only going to get more insane.
Wheee! *Kx's tone*
Pretty much confident that I will advance to year two in 2009. At least one consideration down (only for now). I am getting more busy with every passing day - looking at all the projects we have on hands, I think it's only going to get more insane.
Wheee! *Kx's tone*
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